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Dear Pediatric Provider,

We want to share how telling your patients that they are overweight causes harm. We recognize the internalized weight bias that many providers hold and how, out of fear of what might come with higher weights, they jump to conclusions. We want to provide feedback about how this can lead to patients showing up in our office months or years later with serious eating disorders. Here are some alternative suggestions to having weight-centric discussions.

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Let's Talk About ADHD and Nutrition

Watch Dietetic Intern Brian breaks down the relationship between ADHD and dietary habits— the two are more interconnected than you may think!

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Mental Illness First, Eating Disorder Second

We have all heard of “health kicks gone awry” where eating becomes more restrictive and exercise more compulsive. But we don’t hear as much about the day-to-day struggle to eat for people with significant mental health challenges. In this blog, Tanner takes a closer look at “Eating Disorders, Unspecified”.

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"Mama, you are Fat"

Tonight, my sweet, adorable, beloved child called me fat. Yep. When I asked him why he said that now, while I was sitting in the hot tub in my bathing suit, he replied: “because your body looks fat everywhere”. Very matter-of-factly. No judgment. Just five-year-old observation. Luckily, my first impulse was to use this as a teaching moment.

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Let's Cover our Nutritional Bases

As a dietitian I am frequently asked how to lose weight and which foods are “fattening”. I am far less often asked how to eat in order to meet nutritional needs. In this blog we explore how to actually do this.

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The Cast of Characters in Your Head

We must be aware of the parts our psyche that may or may not serve us positively but developed as ways to cope. These can be thought of as sub-personalities. For simplicity’s sake, here we will only focus on ED’s usual suspects, the binger, restrictor, and critic. Though not “sub-personalities” we also have to consider the body and the Real Self.

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Befriending Food: A Conversation on KCBX Radio

I stopped by KCBX to chat once again with our friend Elizabeth Barrett, the Reluctant Therapist. In this interview, we uncover the complexities around “Atypical” Anorexia, and embrace unconditional self-care.

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‘Tis the Season for Holiday Eating

Even those who do not struggle with eating issues can get entangled in guilt-ridden overeating, a loss of control, and body shame during the Holiday season. In this blog, I discuss digging deeper into what we are really looking for in the food and how to create a new pattern of behavior this holiday season.

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Intuitive Exercise

Thanksgiving is over, and the next holiday wave is about to hit. “How do I break my exercise rules?” “How do I stop using exercise to compensate for food I have eaten or use exercise as permission to eat?”  Intuitive exercise is the answer to compulsive exercise and exercise resistance.

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When Your Child Is On The Verge Of An Eating Disorder

In honor of National Eating Disorders Awareness Week, I address how parents can recognize the early signs of a possible developing eating disorder. Included are tips on how to help your kids if they stop eating normally but insist that they are “fine” 

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What is ARFID?

It has been seven years since the 5th edition of the diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders (DSM) was published. Yet, the diagnosis of ARFID remains widely unknown, and often remains undiagnosed.

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Food to Add for Anorexia Nervosa Recovery 

Maybe you have done therapy for years. Maybe you have been to treatment, perhaps even more than once. And yet, you continue to struggle with Anorexia Nervosa. The missing piece is likely adequate nutrition. We know that food quite literally becomes your medicine in recovery from an eating disorder. Learn more about what foods to add to recover from a restrictive eating disorder in this blog.

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Why Recover?

From the mouths of recovered clients: “Asking "why recover?" is kind of like asking "why would you want someone to stop beating you with a baseball bat?"  The suffering involved, and the desire to end it, should be pretty self-explanatory.  And yet, the delusion of desirability can be profound.”  

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For My Restrictors

With meal plan in hand, the question remains how in the world you are going to follow this, day after day? It can often feel like you are going against every grain in your body in doing so. Here I share some of the many reminders I have given my clients over the years. Perhaps one will resonate with you and give you that added push to eat adequately today.

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Tales from Recovery: Why I Choose Me

My recovery didn’t come quickly. In fact, finding help—especially for my eating disorder once I wanted help—proved to be difficult. This is a tale from my recovery journey.

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Beating the Binge

I used to binge. And then I ate compulsively. I hid food. I hoarded it. I threw food out the window of my car. It felt like the compulsion to “keep eating” would never be lifted.  Boy, was I wrong. Here’s what I’ve learned over the years.

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The Truth about Intermittent Fasting: 16:8 or 5:2?

I knew almost immediately after posting my Most Popular Diets of 2019 blog that I had missed perhaps the most talked-about diet besides Keto. Intermittent Fasting. Of course, it will lead to weight loss at first.

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How Pregnancy Healed My Body Image

I remember my therapist once telling me that I'd experience difficulties being pregnant due to my body image struggles at the time. Today, I’m happy to report she was mistaken. This is my story of how pregnancy healed my body image. 

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